Before you go exclusive with him

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The dating game is not so easy as we thought it would be. Sometimes, we wish we were born in the times of our parents and grandparents. Apparently, their relationships lasted longer! These days, we meet a guy, get the initial stomach flutters, and wham bam, we start dating immediately. 


Most times, we crash so hard because we rushed into the relationship.
What do you need to know before you go exclusive with him?
You need to figure out how well you know them. I agree that some guys have perfected the art of putting up a façade for long, but c’mon, that curtain will slip one day for a glimpse inside. You only have to be alert. After the initial lovey-dovey of a new relationship, characters come unhidden. You need to be positive that you are compatible with him.



Personally, I believe you should not date someone you do not see the possibility of a future with. Well, unless you are in it just for the knacks. Do you see yourself being happy with him in future?
More importantly, are you ready for a full-time commitment? I’m not talking about three times-in-a-week kinda commitment but the long run. It will involve discipline, compromise, and loyalty. If you are not yet there, please do not force it.
Dear ladies, before you go exclusive, give yourself time to know all these and more before you hand over the keys to your heart.

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